You Want to Check for Mutual Interest
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Can anyone find out that I used this service? |
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No. All actions are tied only to your confirmed email address, and no one else will be notified. We do not publish, analyze, or disclose any user data. |
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How do I send an invitation? |
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Fill out the form: enter the recipient’s name and email address (or multiple addresses), your name and your email address (or multiple addresses), and optionally — gender or other details. Confirm ownership of your email addresses. The system will then automatically generate and send a proper message to the recipient. |
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Why specify the recipient’s name or gender? |
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This helps personalize the message, build trust, and show that it is not a bulk or spam mailing. |
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Why provide my name? |
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It allows the recipient to verify that the invitation came from you — in case of a successful guess. |
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Why include multiple of my own email addresses? |
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It increases the chance of a correct guess, especially if the recipient knows you under different addresses (e.g., personal and work emails). |
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Why specify multiple recipient email addresses? |
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To improve the chances that the message is read. The guessing process still happens entirely on the website. |
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What will the recipient know upon getting the invitation? |
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Only that someone in their circle has romantic interest and chose to express it using our service. The sender’s name and email remain hidden unless the recipient guesses correctly. |
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What happens if the recipient guesses my email address? |
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The recipient can decide whether to send you a notification about the match. |
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So I might not get notified even if the recipient guessed right? |
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Correct. This is to protect the recipient’s privacy. |
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Will I know if the recipient is not interested? |
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No. You won’t be able to tell whether they tried to guess, opened the email, etc. This preserves boundaries and comfort for both parties. |
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What happens if the recipient makes an incorrect guess? |
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You won’t be notified. The recipient can try again, with a limit on the number of attempts and a pause between them. |
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How many guessing attempts does the recipient have? |
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Typically three attempts with a delay between them (usually 24 hours). These limits help protect both sides and allow the recipient to consider carefully. |
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What if the recipient doesn’t guess within the allowed number of tries? |
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You won’t receive any notification. You may resend the invitation after a waiting period. |
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So I can resend the invitation? |
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Yes, but with a delay between invitations to the same recipient (usually 7 days). You'll receive a reminder when you're allowed to resend. |
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I’d like to try the system myself to see how it works, without sending a real invitation. Is that possible? |
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Yes. Just enable "Test Mode" when filling out the form. You can use your own addresses as both sender and recipient. You'll see all the messages as if you were the recipient. In test mode, there are no timeouts and you can go through the full process safely. |
You Received an Invitation from Stakeon.me
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What is this email I received? |
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Someone in your circle has feelings for you but chose a discreet approach. They used this service to explore whether those feelings might be mutual — without pressure or misunderstanding. |
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Is this a dating site? |
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No. It's a one-time-use tool for expressing interest between people who already know each other. It’s often used in academic or corporate settings where a direct confession might be inappropriate or risky. |
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What do they want from me? |
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Just one thing: if you’re curious, you can try to guess who it is. Enter the email address of the person you suspect on the website. No further steps are required unless you choose to continue. |
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Could the sender be a colleague or teacher? |
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Yes. That’s precisely why the service exists — to avoid awkwardness, respect boundaries, and give both sides full freedom of choice. |
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Do I have to participate? |
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Not at all. You don’t have to take any action. Just ignore the message — the sender will never know your decision. |
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What if I feel uncomfortable? |
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We respect that. Simply close the message or site — you won’t be contacted again. There are no automatic reminders, subscriptions, or follow-ups. |
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Can anyone find out that I used this service? |
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No. We do not publish, analyze, or disclose any user data. |
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Do I need to register to guess who sent it? |
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No. You don’t need to sign up or provide any personal data. |
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Can the sender see that I opened the email or followed the link? |
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No. No one will know if you opened the message or clicked the link. |
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What do I need to enter? |
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The exact email address of the person you suspect. It must match one of the addresses they submitted. If correct, you’ll see a confirmation. If not, you’ll be invited to try again later. |
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What happens if I enter the wrong address? |
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Nothing. The sender will not be notified — they won’t even know you tried to guess. |
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Will I get another chance to guess? |
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Yes, after a timeout (usually 24 hours). If you wish, we’ll send you a reminder email. |
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How many attempts do I get? |
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Usually three, with a pause (typically one day) between them. This keeps the process calm and respectful. |
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What happens if I guess correctly? |
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You’ll see a brief confirmation of the sender’s identity. |
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Will the sender know that I guessed correctly? |
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You decide whether the service sends them a notification. Everything else is up to you. The service does not take further steps or publish any data. |
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How safe is it to use this service? |
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This service is designed with privacy as a top priority. We do not collect or share personal data, do not track user behavior, and do not use cookies for advertising purposes. |
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